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    <description>Welcome to The Poet Delayed Podcast!
This podcast is a space for real, honest, and meaningful conversation. I explore poetry, literature, healing, relationships, and the deep importance of connection—not just with others, but also with ourselves. While we talk about the beauty and significance of relationships, we also dive into the vital act of staying true to who we are. It’s easy to lose ourselves in the world and in the connections we cherish, but this space is a reminder that being in relationship with others should never mean abandoning ourselves.
Whether I’m sharing my own journey or talking with guests, my goal is to create a space where stories and experiences bring us closer together. I believe that through sharing, we find understanding, and through connection, we find a sense of belonging.
"May I be I is the only prayer - not may I be great or good or beautiful or wise or strong." - E.E. Cummings
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    <itunes:subtitle>using poetry to discover meaning in life</itunes:subtitle>
    <itunes:author>Scott Edgar</itunes:author>
    <itunes:summary>Welcome to The Poet Delayed Podcast!
This podcast is a space for real, honest, and meaningful conversation. I explore poetry, literature, healing, relationships, and the deep importance of connection—not just with others, but also with ourselves. While we talk about the beauty and significance of relationships, we also dive into the vital act of staying true to who we are. It’s easy to lose ourselves in the world and in the connections we cherish, but this space is a reminder that being in relationship with others should never mean abandoning ourselves.
Whether I’m sharing my own journey or talking with guests, my goal is to create a space where stories and experiences bring us closer together. I believe that through sharing, we find understanding, and through connection, we find a sense of belonging.
"May I be I is the only prayer - not may I be great or good or beautiful or wise or strong." - E.E. Cummings
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    <itunes:keywords>Poetry, therapy, trauma, recovery, relationships, connection, authenticity</itunes:keywords>
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  <title>Episode 60: Torchlight </title>
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  <itunes:episode>60</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>Torchlight </itunes:title>
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  <itunes:subtitle>In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Ali Talbot to explore the healing power of creativity and the importance of sharing our creative work with others. We talk about how the art we make to heal ourselves can also resonate with and support those around us—reminding us that creation is not only personal but deeply communal.

We also introduce Torchlight, a new monthly program we’ve launched to bring people together through art, music, and poetry. Each month, we invite local artists, musicians, and writers to share their work, with occasional open mic nights to encourage participation from the community. It’s all about connection, creativity, and creating space for shared expression.

Tune in for a conversation about why what we make matters—and how it can light the way for others.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>55:45</itunes:duration>
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  <description>In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Ali Talbot to explore the healing power of creativity and the importance of sharing our creative work with others. We talk about how the art we make to heal ourselves can also resonate with and support those around us—reminding us that creation is not only personal but deeply communal.
We also introduce Torchlight, a new monthly program we’ve launched to bring people together through art, music, and poetry. Each month, we invite local artists, musicians, and writers to share their work, with occasional open mic nights to encourage participation from the community. It’s all about connection, creativity, and creating space for shared expression.
Tune in for a conversation about why what we make matters—and how it can light the way for others.
I'd love to hear what you have to say about the episode including thoughts on the poetry and the topics that were discussed.  You can email me at poetdelayed@gmail.com.
My first book of poetry, My Mother Sleeps, is availabe for purchase at
The King's English Bookshop (https://www.kingsenglish.com/search/author/%22Edgar%2C%20Scott%20R.%22)
and
Amazon.com (http://www.amazon.com/Scott-R.-Edgar/e/B0B2ZR7W41%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share)
Holding my book at The King's English Bookshop https://files.fireside.fm/file/fireside-uploads/images/b/b1c4f464-ff8b-4fd1-8632-8c458a232c1a/olfoSxre.jpeg Special Guest: Ali Talbot.
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    <![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Ali Talbot to explore the healing power of creativity and the importance of sharing our creative work with others. We talk about how the art we make to heal ourselves can also resonate with and support those around us—reminding us that creation is not only personal but deeply communal.</p>

<p>We also introduce Torchlight, a new monthly program we’ve launched to bring people together through art, music, and poetry. Each month, we invite local artists, musicians, and writers to share their work, with occasional open mic nights to encourage participation from the community. It’s all about connection, creativity, and creating space for shared expression.</p>

<p>Tune in for a conversation about why what we make matters—and how it can light the way for others.</p>

<p>I&#39;d love to hear what you have to say about the episode including thoughts on the poetry and the topics that were discussed.  You can email me at <strong><a href="mailto:poetdelayed@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">poetdelayed@gmail.com</a>.</strong></p>

<p>My first book of poetry, <em>My Mother Sleeps,</em> is availabe for purchase at</p>

<p><a href="https://www.kingsenglish.com/search/author/%22Edgar%2C%20Scott%20R.%22" rel="nofollow">The King&#39;s English Bookshop</a></p>

<p>and</p>

<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Scott-R.-Edgar/e/B0B2ZR7W41%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share" rel="nofollow">Amazon.com</a></p>

<p><img src="https://files.fireside.fm/file/fireside-uploads/images/b/b1c4f464-ff8b-4fd1-8632-8c458a232c1a/olfoSxre.jpeg" alt="Holding my book at The King&#39;s English Bookshop"></p><p>Special Guest: Ali Talbot.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Ali Talbot to explore the healing power of creativity and the importance of sharing our creative work with others. We talk about how the art we make to heal ourselves can also resonate with and support those around us—reminding us that creation is not only personal but deeply communal.</p>

<p>We also introduce Torchlight, a new monthly program we’ve launched to bring people together through art, music, and poetry. Each month, we invite local artists, musicians, and writers to share their work, with occasional open mic nights to encourage participation from the community. It’s all about connection, creativity, and creating space for shared expression.</p>

<p>Tune in for a conversation about why what we make matters—and how it can light the way for others.</p>

<p>I&#39;d love to hear what you have to say about the episode including thoughts on the poetry and the topics that were discussed.  You can email me at <strong><a href="mailto:poetdelayed@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">poetdelayed@gmail.com</a>.</strong></p>

<p>My first book of poetry, <em>My Mother Sleeps,</em> is availabe for purchase at</p>

<p><a href="https://www.kingsenglish.com/search/author/%22Edgar%2C%20Scott%20R.%22" rel="nofollow">The King&#39;s English Bookshop</a></p>

<p>and</p>

<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Scott-R.-Edgar/e/B0B2ZR7W41%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share" rel="nofollow">Amazon.com</a></p>

<p><img src="https://files.fireside.fm/file/fireside-uploads/images/b/b1c4f464-ff8b-4fd1-8632-8c458a232c1a/olfoSxre.jpeg" alt="Holding my book at The King&#39;s English Bookshop"></p><p>Special Guest: Ali Talbot.</p>]]>
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  <title>Episode 13: Inconsequential</title>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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  <itunes:title>Inconsequential</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:subtitle>I’m joined by my friend Jason Langston as I read my poem, Inconsequential.  Then we get into a discussion of connection, addiction, parenting and relationships and the fact that no person is inconsequential.  As John Donne wrote (old English spelling and all): “No man is an Iland, intire of it selfe.”</itunes:subtitle>
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  <description>Inconsequential
At what point is my absence 
Inconsequential?
When they’re too young to know the need?
(But that time is gone)
Certainly not now 
In the midst of life’s straits
With foamy waves pounding 
And hidden reefs lurking 
Beneath an angry, fluid surface.
No; Not now. 
Now they need a captain 
(is that presumptuous?) 
Who has already navigated a similar course –
though more Hazelwood than Magellan.
(well, all Hazelwood and no Magellan)
Perhaps that time will be
When they’ve helmed their own ship.
Is my absence inconsequential then?
Can I cross the bar then?
Of course they’ll think of me and perhaps
Want to see my face and
Hear my voice 
(or have me hear their voice and see their face)
But would my absence harm them?
in those later years? 
That is the question.
But here’s the better question:
Would my absence now 
be better than running them aground, 
again and again
and taking on salty water to no seeming end?
I’ve given it a go.
But the ship lists endlessly and 
The course seems fucked.
Would the idea of me
Be better than the reality?
That is the real question.
No man is an Iland, intire of it selfe; every man is a peece of the Continent, a part of the maine; if a Clod bee washed away by the Sea, Europe is the lesse, as well as if a Promontorie were, as well as if a Mannor of thy friends or of thine owne were; any mans death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankinde; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee.
John Donne, Meditation XVII (from Devotions Upon Emergent Occassions, 1623)
I'd love to hear any thoughts about the episode including thoughts on the poetry and the topics that were discussed.  You can email me at poetdelayed@gmail.com.
If you're interested, I recently published two books of poetry which are available on Amazon.com: 
My Mother Sleeps &amp;amp; On Becoming a Black Hole (http://www.amazon.com/Scott-R.-Edgar/e/B0B2ZR7W41%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share)
 Special Guest: Jason Langston.
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    <![CDATA[<p><strong>Inconsequential</strong></p>

<p>At what point is my absence <br>
Inconsequential?</p>

<p>When they’re too young to know the need?<br>
(But that time is gone)</p>

<p>Certainly not now <br>
In the midst of life’s straits<br>
With foamy waves pounding <br>
And hidden reefs lurking <br>
Beneath an angry, fluid surface.<br>
No; Not now. <br>
Now they need a captain <br>
(is that presumptuous?) <br>
Who has already navigated a similar course –<br>
though more Hazelwood than Magellan.<br>
(well, all Hazelwood and no Magellan)</p>

<p>Perhaps that time will be<br>
When they’ve helmed their own ship.<br>
Is my absence inconsequential then?<br>
Can I cross the bar then?<br>
Of course they’ll think of me and perhaps<br>
Want to see my face and<br>
Hear my voice <br>
(or have me hear their voice and see their face)<br>
But would my absence harm them?<br>
in those later years? <br>
That is the question.</p>

<p>But here’s the better question:<br>
Would my absence now <br>
be better than running them aground, <br>
again and again<br>
and taking on salty water to no seeming end?</p>

<p>I’ve given it a go.<br>
But the ship lists endlessly and <br>
The course seems fucked.</p>

<p>Would the idea of me<br>
Be better than the reality?<br>
That is the real question.</p>

<hr>

<p>No man is an <em>Iland</em>, intire of it selfe; every man is a peece of the <em>Continent</em>, a part of the <em>maine</em>; if a <em>Clod</em> bee washed away by the <em>Sea, Europe</em> is the lesse, as well as if a <em>Promontorie</em> were, as well as if a <em>Mannor</em> of thy <em>friends</em> or of <em>thine owne</em> were; any mans <em>death</em> diminishes <em>me</em>, because I am involved in <em>Mankinde</em>; And therefore never send to know for whom the <em>bell</em> tolls; It tolls for <em>thee</em>.</p>

<ul>
<li>John Donne, <em>Meditation XVII</em> (from <em>Devotions Upon Emergent Occassions</em>, 1623)</li>
</ul>

<hr>

<p>I&#39;d love to hear any thoughts about the episode including thoughts on the poetry and the topics that were discussed.  You can email me at <a href="mailto:poetdelayed@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">poetdelayed@gmail.com</a>.</p>

<p>If you&#39;re interested, I recently published two books of poetry which are available on Amazon.com: </p>

<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Scott-R.-Edgar/e/B0B2ZR7W41%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share" rel="nofollow">My Mother Sleeps &amp; On Becoming a Black Hole</a></p><p>Special Guest: Jason Langston.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p><strong>Inconsequential</strong></p>

<p>At what point is my absence <br>
Inconsequential?</p>

<p>When they’re too young to know the need?<br>
(But that time is gone)</p>

<p>Certainly not now <br>
In the midst of life’s straits<br>
With foamy waves pounding <br>
And hidden reefs lurking <br>
Beneath an angry, fluid surface.<br>
No; Not now. <br>
Now they need a captain <br>
(is that presumptuous?) <br>
Who has already navigated a similar course –<br>
though more Hazelwood than Magellan.<br>
(well, all Hazelwood and no Magellan)</p>

<p>Perhaps that time will be<br>
When they’ve helmed their own ship.<br>
Is my absence inconsequential then?<br>
Can I cross the bar then?<br>
Of course they’ll think of me and perhaps<br>
Want to see my face and<br>
Hear my voice <br>
(or have me hear their voice and see their face)<br>
But would my absence harm them?<br>
in those later years? <br>
That is the question.</p>

<p>But here’s the better question:<br>
Would my absence now <br>
be better than running them aground, <br>
again and again<br>
and taking on salty water to no seeming end?</p>

<p>I’ve given it a go.<br>
But the ship lists endlessly and <br>
The course seems fucked.</p>

<p>Would the idea of me<br>
Be better than the reality?<br>
That is the real question.</p>

<hr>

<p>No man is an <em>Iland</em>, intire of it selfe; every man is a peece of the <em>Continent</em>, a part of the <em>maine</em>; if a <em>Clod</em> bee washed away by the <em>Sea, Europe</em> is the lesse, as well as if a <em>Promontorie</em> were, as well as if a <em>Mannor</em> of thy <em>friends</em> or of <em>thine owne</em> were; any mans <em>death</em> diminishes <em>me</em>, because I am involved in <em>Mankinde</em>; And therefore never send to know for whom the <em>bell</em> tolls; It tolls for <em>thee</em>.</p>

<ul>
<li>John Donne, <em>Meditation XVII</em> (from <em>Devotions Upon Emergent Occassions</em>, 1623)</li>
</ul>

<hr>

<p>I&#39;d love to hear any thoughts about the episode including thoughts on the poetry and the topics that were discussed.  You can email me at <a href="mailto:poetdelayed@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">poetdelayed@gmail.com</a>.</p>

<p>If you&#39;re interested, I recently published two books of poetry which are available on Amazon.com: </p>

<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Scott-R.-Edgar/e/B0B2ZR7W41%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share" rel="nofollow">My Mother Sleeps &amp; On Becoming a Black Hole</a></p><p>Special Guest: Jason Langston.</p>]]>
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