The Poet (delayed)

using poetry to discover meaning in life

About the show

I dabbled in poetry in high school and into my early 20's but then stopped writing for almost 20 years. A few years ago, a number of personal issues came to a head and I had no real choice but to face them and start working through them. As part of that working through them, I began writing poetry again and it has become a very powerful and effective tool for me in rediscovering and reconnecting with myself, which is at the heart of my recovery. In The Poet (delayed), I'll share some of my poetry and discuss it with different guests. But the real point of the podcast is to use my poetry to start conversations about trauma, healing and personal growth.

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Episodes

  • Episode 35: The Traveling Sisterhood

    June 11th, 2024  |  Season 1  |  54 mins 27 secs
    authenticity, empowerment, healing, poetry, self discovery, women supporting women

    Angie is a mother, a photographer, an entrepreneur, a bringer-together of women for healing and a travel addict. She and I sat down and talked about the power of community in healing - especially a community of women for women. We talked about how she started the annual women’s retreats. And we talked about so, so much more. She’s a remarkable woman doing remarkable things amongst other remarkable women.

  • Episode 34: We have art lest we perish of the truth. ~ Nietzsche

    June 4th, 2024  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 12 mins
    authenticity, poetry, self discovery
  • Episode 33: Nostalgia for Now, Part 2

    May 28th, 2024  |  Season 1  |  43 mins 37 secs
    authenticity, poetry, self discovery

    Part 2 of my conversation with SAW. See how the cliffhanger turns out and stay for the conclusion of our conversation in which Stephen takes over host duties and starts questioning me.

  • Episode 32: Nostalgia for Now, Part 1

    May 21st, 2024  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 32 mins
    authenticity, poetry, self discovery

    I met Stephen in high school in Collinsville, IL in 1988. I moved away after my junior year in 1991 and we have bumped into each other only a few times since, but before I moved away we had some grand times. In part 1, we talked about the grandest time we had together when we took a road trip to the east coast as two 17 year old boys (one with a horrible haircut) armed with fake IDs, a bag of audio cassettes, a rough idea of what we were going to do and…well, that was about it.

  • Episode 31: “i have been a thousand different woman” by emoryhall

    May 16th, 2024  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 8 mins
    authenticity, poetry, self discovery, transactional love, unconditional love

    I was joined by my friend, Wendi Shavon. I asked Wendi to chose a poem to read and she chose “i have been a thousand different woman” by poet emoryhall. She read the poem and we discussed.

  • Episode 30: “You don’t pass or fail at being a person, dear.”

    April 30th, 2024  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 8 mins
    authenticity, individuality, may i be i, poetry, self discovery

    I’m joined by Rachel Allen, LCSW. She chose a quote from a favorite book of her, Ocean at the End of the Lane by Neil Gaiman, which includes the line, “You don’t pass or fail at being a person, dear.”

  • Episode 29: This Be the Verse by Philip Larkin

    April 25th, 2024  |  Season 1  |  54 mins 21 secs
    authenticity, intergenerational trauma, parenting, poetry, self discovery

    I’m joined by my friend Tyler Mathis who reads Philip Larkin’s poem “This Be The Verse.” We discuss the trauma passed down from generation to generation and ways that we are dealing with it and hopefully breaking the chain.

  • Episode 28: Wild Geese by Mary Oliver

    April 12th, 2024  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 25 secs
    alignment, authenticity, mary oliver, poetry, self discovery, wild geese

    I’m joined again by Josh Baron and we read Mary Oliver’s poem, Wild Geese, and discuss the idea that “we do not have to be good.”

  • Episode 27: The Capacity of Your Tears

    November 25th, 2023  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 6 mins
    asking for help, authenticity, hope, hopelessness, poetry, self discovery, tears

    We can't do it all alone. Sometimes, we need to reach out for help and that's not always easy. In fact, in my experience, it's rarely easy. In this episode, I discuss three obstacles that get in my way of asking for help.

  • Episode 26: The Burning Comes First

    November 7th, 2023  |  Season 1  |  25 mins 17 secs
    authenticity, be brave, healing, kalen dion, mental health, phoenix rises, poetry, self discovery

    Carl Jung said, “There is no coming to consciousness without pain.” My experience has been that this is true and in this episode, I use a poem by Kalen Dion as a way to introduce Jung’s concept and then discuss my experiences with change.

  • Episode 25: Terrible Potential (redux)

    August 6th, 2023  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 4 mins
    authenticity, childhood trauma, hope, mental health, personal responsibility, poetry, recovery, self discovery

    In this episode, I revisit my poem, Terrible Potential, and talk about ways in which it applies to my recovery.

  • Episode 24: Love People Equally

    May 8th, 2023  |  Season 1  |  36 mins 39 secs
    authenticity, daughters, poetry, self discovery

    My daughter Ruby and I were the only ones home, so I decided to record an episode of The Poet (delayed) with her. We talked about her track and field season that just finished up, softball, boys, poetry, music, flying fish and boys.

  • Episode 23: “…the catching of my whole heart”

    May 3rd, 2023  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 38 mins
    authenticity, individuation, poetry, self discovery, spiritual bypass

    I was joined by my friend and poet, Kelli Stephens and she read her unnamed poem from which I grabbed the title of this episode, “…the catching of my whole heart.” We discussed healing, religion, leaving religion, finding yourself and finding peace in your sovereignty and much, much more.

  • Episode 22: Meaningful Life

    April 11th, 2023  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 45 mins
    authenticity, meaningfulness, mental health, poetry, self awareness, self discovery

    I was joined by neuropsychologist Ben Christiansen in episode 22 of The Poet (delayed). We read my haiku, Meaningful Life and discussed what a meaningful life consists of and how we can work towards one. Hint: it involves math…well, equations at least.

  • Episode 21: Comprehend Yourself

    April 7th, 2023  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 39 mins
    authenticity, divinity, poetry, self discovery

    In the summer of 1991, I nearly drown at Deer Creek Reservoir near Heber City, Utah. My poem, Comprehend Yourself, is a summary of that event, and in this episode of The Poet (delayed), Mechelle Wingle and I discuss that poem and its meaning and meanings.

  • Episode 20: They Were Beacons Once

    March 6th, 2023  |  Season 1  |  1 hr 5 mins
    addiction, authenticity, childhood trauma, gabor mate, johann hari, poetry, recovery, self discovery

    In this episode of The Poet (delayed), I'm joined by Las Vegas based therapist, Brad Singletary as we read my poem, "They Were Beacons Once," and have a discussion about addiction, its cause and recovery.